Have you ever had the thought, “my partner should know what I like/need/want?” Being able to give and request feedback can be a great way to ensure everyone is on the same page and fulfilled in the relationship. In fact, studies show that communication and effective feedback is strongly connected to relational and sexual satisfaction, […]
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Let’s tackle a myth that’s been floating around since the Dark Ages: the idea that men are more drawn to visual stimuli than women. You know, the notion that men’s eyes pop out of their heads cartoonishly at the mere sight of a shapely figure or sliver of skin, while women remain blissfully unaffected by desire. The […]
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In today’s digital age, with the the increased usage of cell phones and social media, technology has transformed various aspects of our lives, including the way we communicate and express our desires. Sexting, or the act of sending sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos, has become increasingly popular among adults in consensual relationships. However, […]
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Shame can be the primary drive and stressor in sexual compulsion. Shame can turn into a cyclical pattern, and people who experience shaming messaging around their sexual behaviors, desires, and interests may feel overwhelmed from this shame, causing the individual to hide their desires. How Does Sexual Shame Develop? We tend to pick […]
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Hypersexuality & hyposexuality imply that one’s sexual desire and/or sexual activity are uncommonly high or low. The cause for these concerns can be biological, stemming from medical conditions, medication use, hormonal imbalances, or psychological factors such as factors around the arousal system, trauma history, mental health history, or relationship issues. What are Hypersexuality & Hyposexuality? […]
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